The chaos of packing, airport crowds and security, lengthy car rides and yes, even overexposure to family and friends is challenging enough. Add traveling with special needs into the equation, and some might prefer to stay home. But a few preparations and travel tools can go a long way. Try these strategies to ease stress and increase enjoyment for everyone.

  1. Prepare the child in advance as much as possible.
     Practice for the trip for a period leading up to the actual travels. Talk about the upcoming experience to help your child overcome anxiety. Act out or role play anticipated events in advance, from taking off shoes for airport security to applauding after a toast.
  2. Redirect anxious energy into constructive activity. 
    To take the edge off the potential anxiety of seeing many less familiar faces all at once, make the event a fun and educational by creating a special activity. Create a small photo album featuring people who will be at the event, and help your child play "Family Bingo," checking off each person he or she greets or sees across the room. Or, create a pictogram of your itinerary or agenda and help your child follow along.
  3. Encourage creative expression.
     For those able to write or draw, a pocket journal or sketchbook for illustrating what they're experiencing can provide another useful outlet. Children who are more observers than participants may appreciate assignments such as taking pictures with a digital camera.
  4. Don't expect perfection.
    Whenever you travel with children, it's best to "expect the unexpected," or at least leave room for something to pop up to divert you from your agenda.
  5. Secure an extra set of hands. 
    Try traveling with a friend, family member or caregiver to help keep things in order when you're on the move, provide manpower for carrying belongings and an extra set of eyes, and even make bathroom breaks with multiple children an easier task.
  6. Manage expectations for you and your hosts.
     A pending visit from a special needs child may produce stress for the host as well as the child and the parent. Prepare everyone by communicating your child's needs in advance and asking for some general ground rules for inside the home, as a gesture toward making the visit as pleasant and peaceful as possible.
  7. Bring along some "friends." 
    Pack a kit of sensory tools and toys that are fun and familiar. Sensory gadgets/fidgets, noise reduction headphones, weighted vests, or favorite belongings from home will help filter out outside stimuli and provide a comforting connection to "home."
  8. Minimize changes to eating habits. 
    Try to keep your child's diet consistent to prevent constipation, indigestion, allergic reactions or other adverse developments. Feed your child something satisfying to comfort them before a long trip, and take along favorite utensils as a connection to more familiar situations. Don't expect your child to sit for an entire meal. Rather, prepare a spot where he or she can rest, play or calm down while the meal continues.
  9. RX for safer travels. 
    Ready a medicine kit with prescriptions, medical information and OTC products to confront fevers, allergies, cuts and other issues that may surface when you travel out of your home.
  10. Preserve the moment but reserve time for breaks.
     The ingredients of posing for pictures - people huddled close together, bright flashes, noise and the need to stay still - can lead to overstimulation. Don't oblige your child to participate in all the photos, and be sure to take breaks in between.


Traveling can be a great experience, offering lessons and fond memories for all. The key is to prepare everyone in advance, pack a few fun and familiar items, and remember that it takes time and patience to learn how to manage change.